Pakistani writer, actor and noted feminist Mira Sethi has revealed that she was offered a major role in ARY Digital’s hit drama “Main Manto Nahi Hoon” but she turned it down due to the writer Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar’s misogynistic behavior.
Mira shared this revelation during a public discussion on women’s rights with writer Muneeb Qadir, a conversation that has recently gone viral on social media.
Mira Sethi’s Stand, “I Don’t Compromise on Principles”
During the conversation, Mira Sethi explained:
“I really wanted to do the role because I’ve previously worked with Humayun Saeed and Sajal Aly but I cannot go against my feminist identity. If I collaborate with someone who constantly disrespects women, what’s the point of my principles?”
She emphasized that for her, ethical and intellectual integrity outweighs professional success.
Drama and Character Details
| Character | Actor | Background |
| Miss Maria | Sanam Saeed | Manto’s close friend and confidante |
| Manto | Humayun Saeed | A university professor and central figure |
| Mahmal | Sajal Aly | Manto’s student involved in a controversial relationship |
Mira Sethi was initially offered the role of “Miss Maria”, a key supporting character in the story. The role was later performed by Sanam Saeed.
Sanam Saeed’s Reservations About Script
Interestingly, Sanam Saeed herself admitted in an earlier interview that she had reservations about the script written by Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar but chose to perform while maintaining her personal boundaries.
In one of the early episodes, a “fat-shaming joke” triggered backlash sparking intense debate on social media regarding the show’s tone and values.
Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar’s Controversial Record
Mira Sethi’s decision is also meaningful because Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar has been severely criticized for his anti-women statements in the past. Some of the controversial cases are:
- Slandering Marvi Sarmad on live TV show.
- Making victim-blaming comments during the Noor Mukadam murder case.
- Linking feminism to the “collapse of family values.”
Mira previously said:
“Khalil sahib has made himself the flag-bearer of a mindset that is harmful to women. He thinks he’s right but in truth, he represents a very ugly form of thinking.”
Background, The Ongoing Controversies Around “Main Manto Nahi Hoon”
The drama “Main Manto Nahi Hoon” has faced criticism since its release. The story revolves around a romantic relationship between a professor and his student which critics argue romanticizes morally questionable behavior under the guise of “literary romance.”
Public Reactions:
- “This is yet another controversial narrative by Khalil-ur-Rehman Qamar.” — (Social media user)
- “An actor like Sajal Aly should have avoided such a role.” — (Drama critic)
Mira Sethi’s Courageous Stand
Mira Sethi’s decision is an example of not just turning down an offer but of setting boundaries between art, ethics and ideas. His point is clear that acting only makes sense. When it does not go against social values.
Her move is being seen as a strong symbol of autonomy and intellectual freedom for women in Pakistan’s showbiz industry.
